A father's Doubt.

Why can't people learn to live less for themselves? If people knew how to live more and less in other aspects of their lives they greatly would avoid hurting people they love. I had a very reality induced experience last saturday night, where I got to see first hand the cruelty of man being just human, It must be intoxication, depression, insecurity or feeling trapped and lonely but this guy was a jerk to his family, specially his sons, I had a brief history of this guy's family background, no matter what experiences you had in your past life, nothing will be justified by doing the same wrong things to the loved ones you have in the present. I know... A fact that I have been a victim of it too. Most of us all are... So you know what it feels when someone you love betrays you and leaves you for some shitty idea they met in a bar one drunken night, If you learn to put your shoes in theirs, you'll understand. I am certainly not teaching a hypocritical lesson to those who read this and had or in this situation, being in a relationship is hard. I know, THAT's why I'm not in it, Some people really do not see things the way I see them, as one of my good buddies expressed the same thing I felt, we where on the same page, that all of this you see in this world ~by not seeing what makes you happy, is useless... AND by not doing anything wrong might I add. If the thing that gives you Joy is sometimes traversed in the wrong side of life, I'm not gonna stop you, BUT be prepared for the consequence. MY ADVICE... GET A HOBBY.